03 Jul 2009 12:00 AM:
Well, after talking about it, dreaming it, thinking about it, planning it, for about 15 years we are finally DOING IT!!
All right, calm down everyone I mean we are coming to Spain....... In 8 weeks!
We are renting a house on an urbanisation (we have visited before) for 6 months to see if we can do it. The kids are excited, we are excited and I have had to buy a diary especially for our friends visiting rights! We have work lined up, school places and somewhere to live and money in the bank. As we are only renting out our UK house and renting a spanish house so we are still sitting on the fence, really, but we feel that in current climate its probably a more sensible stance.
So all is well - except one family member, who is really mad at us for "jumping ship" ; We have one elderly family member left who is healthy and living an independant life but apparantly according to one of our younger relations we are abandoning our responsibilities. Frankly, I don't suppose this person really believed it was ever going to happen. The alternative is to sit it out and wait for God.
My question are: Are we being selfish? Has anyone else had similar problems? If so what did you do? Should we be even listening to this relations protestations?
I dont want to make enemies out of an otherwise happy family but surely it is down to the members of our little family unit to decide our future. This really is spoiling what should be a happy and exciting time.
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Here we go!!!
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