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LIFE AFTER LIFE

Living in Spain after surviving 24 years in prison. Here I will be sharing my experiences as a writer and journalist, travelling all over the world interviewing dangerous people in dangerous places.

On Surviving 24 Years in Prison
Saturday, October 13, 2012 @ 5:39 PM

In 1970, at 26 years of age, I was sentenced to life imprisonment. As much as it was a shock to the system it wasn’t entirely unexpected. I was an active criminal, heavily involved in armed robbery, as well as being a known ‘face’ on the, for want of a better term, underworld scene.
  I had served a previous sentence of 6 years for another serious offence when I was 18. Far from  making it easier to accept my present sentence, this, in fact, made it harder. I actually had a reference point to quantify time served against. I knew just how long, in psychological terms, it had taken to serve the 6 year sentence.
  Further,  because of this serious previous conviction, I realised that I would serve very much longer than the average lifer. The Home Office never gave any guidelines, so it was all a matter of guesswork. However, I estimated that I was looking at somewhere between 15 and 20 years.
  Quite clearly, I was entering uncharted territory. Equally clearly. I would have to work out some sort of survival strategy.
  On my previous sentence I had seen men who had ‘cracked up’. There were regular suicides and others had become so eccentric that they had been certified insane and sent to one of the special hospitals. The risk of losing one’s mind was every prisoner’s greatest fear.
  So I looked among my fellow prisoners for human yardsticks to measure against. The majority of men who had served 5 years seemed fully in command of their faculties. Among the much fewer men who had served 10 years a sizeable proportion showed clear signs of eccentricity. Virtually to a man, the handful of prisoners who had served 15 years or more were seriously damaged.
  But I was the irresistible force, blessed or cursed with a fanatical self-belief. It was my very strength that had brought me into such violent conflict with the accepted norms of society. Even so, I realised that I would have to make myself immeasurably stronger in order to survive the long years.
  An immediate problem was the ‘politics’ of the world I lived in. Violence is epidemic in prison. It is truly a warrior society, with strength and viciousness the most necessary qualities for survival. As a notorious killer I would be a target for other violent men wanting to make a name for themselves. Further, the prison authorities are in the business of trying to break the prisoner’s spirit.
  Intuitively, I felt that the strength of one’s spirit was supremely important. This ruled out trying to lead a low-profile existence. I would have to stand my ground whatever the challenge and if that brought me into conflict, then so be it. It would be extremely stressful, but stress isn’t necessarily the enemy. It is all a question of how one handles it.
  The strategy I was to adopt would work on two levels, the mental and the physical. The latter was designed to strengthen my will and was really an interaction between the mental and the physical. Grueling work-outs up to three hours a day would hone an obsessive determination that would enable me to make the most rational decision, no matter how much pain and grief it caused me in the short term. A welcome by-product of the work-outs was that I would better be able to defend myself in violent confrontations.
  It was also part of my strategy never to accept the life sentence. I was a resourceful and determined escaper. The ‘spiritual’ benefits of this was that salvation could come at any time. Next week, next month, a successful escape could put me on the street and at the end of my life sentence.
  I spent a lot of time in solitary confinement in the early years. In many ways this worked directly against my survival plan. Sensory deprivation is the most extreme of human environments, one where the mind invariably fractures. However, in line with the maxim ‘that which does not kill you makes you stronger’, if you can survive it you do emerge the stronger.
  But if I was the irresistible force, then the institution of prison was the immovable object. Unsuccessful escape attempts, violent incidents and confrontations with the authorities saw me constantly thrown into solitary and/or moved around the country. Emotionally, physically and spiritually it was tiring. As I approasched my tenth year and my first parole review I realised that it was impossible to sustain such a life.
  But with ten years behind me, other possibilities now presented themselves. Lower security prisons offered better resourced, less violent regimes that were more stimulating. I was sent to a well-resourced Category C prison called The Verne, at Portland in Dorset. Here, in conditions of comparative freedom, I continued my programme of mental and physical survival.
  There were still shocks and surprises. At the thirteen year mark the incumbent ‘law and order’ Home Secretary changed the whole lifer system. Every lifer was given a ‘tariff’ and mine was to be 20 years. But at least I had something  to aim at now.
  At the 18 year mark I was suddenly struck by a crippling arthritic illness. Within weeks I could hardly walk and the prison doctor warned that  my condition could only worsen. My awesome self-discipline stood me in good stead though. I researched the illness and through a combination of diet and exercise largely overcame it. I was phenomenally strong in every way now.
  I continued to do what I had always done and the time passed. On 20 years they sent me to open prison. Four years later I was released.
  I have since written six books, one of them a best-seller, with all the others still in print after several years. I became a journalist and travelled all over the world for the Sunday Express and men’s life-style magazines. I attended Surrey University and passed a Master’s degree in criminology. I currently live in Spain.
  In conclusion, what I am most definitely not saying is that my life is one to be emulated. The message is, that with a finely honed and focused will, one can overcome seemingly insurmountable problems. Often, the rational, logical decision is plain to see. Equally often, the flesh is weak. Will-power is a muscle  It can be strengthened if you have the determination.
 



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Gerald said:
Saturday, October 13, 2012 @ 6:10 PM

I look forward to reading your future "stories".
Seems such a shame that you could not have been "redirected" 30 to 40 years ago as your future life could have wended a very different future path. But who can tell?
Perhaps your time encarcarated in fact made you into the obviously successful person you are today, but from your initial reading you are really the exception to the rule.
Can I take it the you are in your 60's or even 70's?


Norman Parker said:
Saturday, October 13, 2012 @ 7:27 PM

Thank you for your comment. Yes, if only we could change the past. Presently all I can try to do is to ensure that everything I do is positive. Yes, I am in my sixties now. Norman


Gerald said:
Saturday, October 13, 2012 @ 8:26 PM

what Province of Spain do you reside Norman?


John said:
Sunday, October 14, 2012 @ 3:35 PM

Interesting post Norman, looking forward to reading some more.


Louise said:
Tuesday, October 16, 2012 @ 4:27 PM

Very interesting reading for sure. It maybe that if you didn't spend that time inside you may not have become the successful writer that you are now. I will also look forward to reading any further stories that you may care to write.


Jack Palance said:
Tuesday, October 16, 2012 @ 8:28 PM

I can imagine the grief behind this story only too well. I was held in Portland Borstal for a few terms during the 80's and have the honour of being the first one to successfully escape in 13 years. The screws were bastards on that island and so proud of its security. It was a real pleasure to prove them wrong and when they finally sent me back I was a hero. Best wishes to you. Let me know if you want to interview me!


Tamara said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 8:11 AM

Hi Norman and welcome. I can see why you are a successful writer - your blog is gripping and you write engagingly and with insight. Good to have you here. It'd be good to get your perspective on some of the forum threads too.


Nigel said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 9:20 AM

No mention of your victims Norman and how u felt for them. Did the thought of them help you in your rehab?


Nigel said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 9:27 AM

Jack palance. A hero? - among con? I suggest you reevaluate what a real hero is.


midasgold said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 9:33 AM

As the son of a serving officer who lost his life in the last war.
I was also sent away, at 12 years of age to a british public
school. I recognize your strong mindset as an essential means of survival !




David H said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 12:43 PM

Norman. I am struggling to understand how an intelligent and articulate young man came to the conclusion that there could be any fulfilment in leading a life of crime. I guess your purpose now is to serve as a warning; since you have a gift you have the opportunity to do that spectacularly well.


Mark W said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 5:06 PM

Norman.A very well written article.I note your emphasis on PMA and diet when you were ill.I was diagnosed with cancer in May this year.I immediately set about upping my attitude and drastically changed my diet.4 weeks ago I had major surgery and my recovery has been the talk of the doctors treating me.I have a way to go but I absolutely want to assure anybody facing such traumas that your attitude will decide which way you go/decide how your body reacts/survives.Diet when you are sick is a massive influence on survival rates.
To be incarcerated for the time you were Norman and coming through it in the way you did is testimony to the theory behind PMA and then diet during illness.


Webster said:
Saturday, October 20, 2012 @ 6:12 PM

A lot of similarities to that other great 'lifer' survivor, Henri Chavallier, but beautifully articulated. Would welcome a future article on how the prison system could evolve to better serve as a deterrent and/or rehabilitation centre for the young criminal. Many of us 'outsiders' see the current system, especially the Open Prisons, as being a bit soft. I refer to my 'local', Ford.


Margaret said:
Sunday, October 21, 2012 @ 3:23 PM

Look Norman a very well written message. But what you are not telling people is what you did to end up in jail looking at the answers to your message it sems people are feeling sorry for you.
Maybe if their family were victims of crime they may answer you differently. I watch the telly and see all the horendous things that people do to each other like the little girl april who is missing at the moment you dont get 26 years for nothing


Norman Parker said:
Sunday, October 21, 2012 @ 3:37 PM

Thank you all for your comments. I hope you enjoy my writing.


Margaret said:
Monday, October 22, 2012 @ 4:15 PM

People in prison yes they can come out and lead normal lives but victims of crime and their families their life sentence lasts the rest of their lives


Jamie said:
Thursday, October 25, 2012 @ 8:00 AM

I agree with Margaret. Despite how well Norman writes I see no mention of his crimes, victims or their families.

There is nothing heroic here.


Margaret said:
Friday, November 2, 2012 @ 11:17 PM

So ok when are going to continue your writing I would be intrerested what you have got to say. tell us about yourself and about your crimes dont make yourself out to be the victim. Lambs to the slaughter so they say if you want to write tell the truth dont hide


Margaret said:
Friday, November 2, 2012 @ 11:18 PM

So ok when are going to continue your writing I would be intrerested what you have got to say. tell us about yourself and about your crimes dont make yourself out to be the victim. Lambs to the slaughter so they say if you want to write tell the truth dont hide


Norman said:
Saturday, November 3, 2012 @ 6:52 PM

I hope you are enjoying my writing as I take you on a journey through this dark land of ours, with an occasional leavening of irony!


hawk55 said:
Monday, February 9, 2015 @ 12:19 AM

hi norman i meet you in 1982/3 long time great your doing so well regards. john


hawk55 said:
Monday, February 9, 2015 @ 12:19 AM

hi norman i meet you in 1982/3 long time great your doing so well regards. john


hawk55 said:
Monday, February 9, 2015 @ 12:20 AM

hi norman i meet you in 1982/3 long time great your doing so well regards. john


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