Hi Andy,
It's nice to welcome a fellow technogeek to the forum.
The only thing I would say about where you plan to live and where you plan to work, might differ from what you have decided, once you've been in Spain for awhile. So I think the fact that you are renting 1st is a good idea, then you can 'settle' closer to where you want to work.
For Carolyn and I, we are settling in Duquesa, as it's close to Gib and Marbella, and not to far away from Malaga. So when it comes to finding an IT job, I shouldn't have much problem. I'm not sure on IT work in the area you and your family are moving too, however ask around and you'll find loads of people willing to help you and your family settle in.
I found this forum two years ago, and joining this forum is the best thing I ever did!
Good luck for you and your family, and we are sure that you will succeed.
This message was last edited by TechNoApe on 6/6/2008.