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Health and Personal Development of young adults

For many years I have been involved in the personal development and health of teenagers and young adults. I have gained an insight into the way their minds work (or don´t work) and the reasons for many of their behaviors. There is nothing that will surprise me at this stage in my career and all sorts of information will land on this blog. Hopefully some of it will help!

Small Steps with Disciplines Lead To Major Achievements
Sunday, November 25, 2012 @ 6:38 PM

 

Why is it that some students and adults for that matter seem to commit to what they want to achieve and others just drift and manage to do enough to keep in the boundaries of mediocrity

I think myself that it is basically down to the depth of their desire and their belief in themselves that propels the committed ones  forward to take action and move  towards their desired goals. If they do not have that belief or desire of where they want to be and what they want to do in their future careers then they drift into the mediocrity of daily life.

One method  I believe that can move us forward to where we want to be is when we set simple disciplines in the form of daily tasks. If we can find our inspiration that will ignite the desire to enable us to set up and perform small daily actions that will in turn lead us to create positive results in our lives that in effect make us unstoppable.

Lets think of this in another way ..

what is the price of creating these daily tasks compared to the price of not doing these daily tasks due to our lack of commitment?

The price is living with regret, failure,  ill heath, and poverty. All because we have neglected to carry out this daily discipline. I  have tried really hard to instill this daily discipline in my daughters by letting them see where this lack of commitment  in young people has resulted in living their lives on welfare with a few children and little money to get by. 

I love the saying …” if you continue to keep doing the same things you will continue to get the same result”

Everyone has the ability to change and change does not have to be insurmountable. All it takes is small changes daily in the way you do things and gradually you will start to see that small changes bring about major results.

So how do we start to put in action our daily disciplines.

We first of all need a clear idea of what we want for the future. Do you know what you want for your future?....You need a clear vision of what you want..I  know what I want.. It does not matter what age you are or where you are right now. I have a plan to achieve in 2 years time, I am 57 years old and I have daily tasks I do to move me towards that plan. One of those daily tasks is writing this article.

Know what you want then create a plan to guide you to invite this success into your experiences.

Set down your daily tasks. Use your willpower to perform these daily tasks and in a matter of weeks these daily tasks will become habits. These small changes will not require you to completely change everything you do they will just mean that you start practicing your new daily success tasks.

Our desire will always tell us what we want but desire will only become reality when we put the wheels in motion to turn our desire into reality .

Our daily tasks are those wheels.

Remember the saying “if you want something done give it to a busy person” that is because the person is a “Doer” they just get on with things and get the work done.

It is important for you to see a vivid picture in your mind of the person you want to become in the future. Keep your faith strong that you will achieve your dreams. Always try to do a little better today than what you did yesterday.

Do this and you will live the life you planned.

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eggcup said:
Sunday, November 25, 2012 @ 7:48 PM

Hi Kathy. Just a quick question (I would have sent you a private message but don't know how to do it from the Blog section). Do you have any suggestions of a website where I could publish a blog on teenage depression/school refusal/home schooling? I am aiming to write a book on this subject and, fitting in with the article above, I want to take the steps towards this by posting a blog on it on a regular basis. I like the discipline of blogging to help me to edit some of the book each week (this is the approach I'm taking on my current blog on this website about my experiences in Spain). I think this other blog could be a help to others who face this 'crisis' with their children, coming as it does, directly from a parent. Once again I enjoyed the article and will re-read it tomorrow as there was a lot of food for thought. All the best.


Patricia (Campana) said:
Monday, November 26, 2012 @ 12:21 AM

The difficulty is, Kathy, is that we cannot foretell the future, much as we would like to think we can.

And yes, the present (today) does configure the future, in those cases where people have got one. In actual fact we don't even know what will happen tomorrow morning.

We also have to think of psychodynamics. Many, all too many, are stuck in a trap, be it a poverty trap or some other kind. It isn't easy to think of anything in those circumstances.

As the husband of a friend of mine sagely puts it: "What you ask for and what you get are two entirely different things".




Kathy said:
Monday, November 26, 2012 @ 12:53 PM

Hi Eggcup ...to answer your question.
I think the easiest option is to set up a blog and as you already have one then you know how to do that .
Your articles could then become your book as you write them and collect them together.On my own research I would say that there is good scope to do a book on home schooling as there are alot of searches and not much competition. I think you would be able to develop a website on that aspect quite successfully


Kathy said:
Monday, November 26, 2012 @ 1:58 PM

Hi Patricia
I agree that we cannot foretell the future but even so I feel that we still need to have a plan in place. If we do not have any aspirations or plan then in my mind we have lost all hope. When we do not have any hope for the future then what have we got?
No matter what our circumstances in life are we still need to have a hope that things will get better. All of us are dealt a differant hand of cards and we have to work with what we have got .


Patricia (Campana) said:
Monday, November 26, 2012 @ 9:22 PM

Of course, Kathy, I agree that we need to have aspirations, and hopes. Hope is the final frontier so to speak.

Helping people to realise their hopes and aspirations is wonderful IMO.

Life is fraught with difficulties and the resilient make the best fist of it.






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