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My goal is to paint a picture of life in Spain during the seventies and eighties, albeit from a foreigner's point of view. Excerpts are in no particular chronological order.

From Spain to Gibraltar - 1974
Sunday, August 18, 2013 @ 3:37 AM

 
It's 1974 and my soon to be husband and I leave El Puerto de Santa Maria, Cadiz to go to Gibraltar. Seems it's the easiest place to get married. With Franco still in power, bureaucracy has so much red tape that you get tangled up in your own shadow.

I don't remember ever being too concerned about living in a dictatorship. Before moving to Spain to teach in a bilingual school, I did read that it would be best not to discuss politics with the local people. Okay. Sounds good to me. At that time the only Spanish I knew was "adios amigo", so there was never any fear of my becoming embroiled in any political discussion.

In 1972 the border between Spain and Gibraltar was closed. Franco had made sure of that. The only way to arrive in Gibraltar from Spain is to go to Tangiers and then basically retrace your steps and finally enter Gibraltar.

Guess what? I succumbed to some dreadful gastrointestinal disease whilst in Tangiers. I was dying. That's what it felt like. By the time we finally got to Gibraltar all I could do was to collapse on the skinny narrow  bed after my stomach had emptied itself in the most unladylike fashion. Welcome to Gibraltar!

The next day we made our way to the registrar office where we were duly married. No photos, however. Not one single one. I was doing all I could just to mumble the necessary utterances that got us the wedding certificate. And for the wedding reception? How about some bland scrambled eggs to settle a very queasy stomach?!

Up high on the rock we were accosted by an ape. Or did I just imagine that?! That night I won the jackpot in the slot machine at the casino. And I'm not even a gambler.

The next day it was back to Tangiers and then once again to Spain located within walking distance of where we got married in Gibraltar.

I should have written to Franco himself and complained to him that it was all because of his closing the bloody  border that I got so sick in Tangiers!



 
 


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lee halliday said:
Saturday, August 24, 2013 @ 7:53 AM

Great story. Been to Tangiers myself and not something I or my stomach / bottom would like to visit again. Reminded me of Mickey Flanagan's very funny story of visiting Spain in the 80's. I can also confirm I was accosted by apes in Gibraltar!

Sounds like you got married for the right reasons by the lack of grandeur unlike the young ones today who just want the big grand wedding to impress their friends!




Linda p Harle said:
Saturday, August 24, 2013 @ 9:14 AM

Hi, I read your letter and thought snap as I also got married in Gib in 1974 but not for the same reasons, I was living in in the country and had been since 1965 as my parents moved us all out there, my soon to be was Spanish and I was only young but also new of the no divorce law so could not afford to go to the uk and was not going to marry in Spain so gib seemed the best option, I had no probs at all carrying a uk passport but my by then husband being Spanish had his passport taken away from him when we came back into the country by the ferry the guardia civil new very well where we had been and the punishment was that, that was many years ago two children and a divorce later I'm now living in the uk very funny to think about it now with the problem that they are having down there again can see it happening all over again although I hope not


midasgold said:
Saturday, August 24, 2013 @ 10:37 AM

After or 25 year engagement (we don't like to rush things) we
married in Gib 5 years ago. We were unable to cope with the
impossible paperwork here in Spain, where we live. After one previous trip to arrange everything,the Big Day went well having
asked a passing young man to be our witness ! The following day we returned to Spain and hired the Mijas Player where we
had one great party with all our family and friends.


timmytoo said:
Wednesday, August 28, 2013 @ 8:01 PM

Thank you for your comments. I appreciate it.


timmytoo said:
Monday, September 2, 2013 @ 4:33 PM

We made it back to Gibraltar for our 25th wedding anniversary. This time we had a photo taken!

Next year will be our 40th wedding anniversary, so we may venture to Gibraltar again.






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