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My goal is to paint a picture of life in Spain during the seventies and eighties, albeit from a foreigner's point of view. Excerpts are in no particular chronological order.

The Two Colleagues and the Pregnant María del Pilar - 1980, Talavera de la Reina
Sunday, September 15, 2013 @ 6:45 PM

1980, Talavera de la Reina

 

I'm teaching English privately in my apartment on the Calle del Prado.  One group is made up of two advanced students who work together at the Colgate company, just outside Talavera. They are always punctual, and always very well dressed, complete with shirt and tie. They even use 'usted' with me, even although we're around the same age.

 

The handsome one with the dark curly hair announces, "Guess what I'm going to purchase?"

 

Nobody replies.

 

"A video cassette recorder." He beams. His face literally lights up as he awaits admiration from his colleague and me.

 

"That must cost a fortune!  A video cassette recorder?!" His colleague is stunned.

 

"Yes, it is VERY expensive. It's the latest craze." He can't stop grinning from ear to ear.

 

"What are you going to do with this v.c.r.?" 

 

"I don't know. Look at films?"

 

"How does it work?" The colleague looks up at me as if I should know. "I think you connect it to your television?"

 

We sit in silence.

 

I am technically inept. I don't even know how to read instructions, so I change the subject.

 

"How are your families?"  Families are a safe conversational topic.

 

"My wife is SO jealous. She really is jealous." That's the colleague talking.

 

"Why is she jealous?" V.C.R. Man can hardly get the words out, his face is still smug and grinning, thinking of his new machine. 

 

"She won't let me go to London! And I should go. Shouldn't I? I mean, how am I to perfect my English?"

 

V.C.R. Man grins salaciously. "You want to go to London without your wife? To learn English?"

 

"Just for a week or two, that's all."

 

They shrug their shoulders in unison. Agreement has been met. The wife is indeed jealous, and should let her husband go to London.

 

"Couldn't you take your wife with you?" What a silly question I ask!

 

The two men frown at me.

 

"She's happier taking care of the house and our children. Anyway, London isn't a place to take your wife!"

 

"Why not?"

 

"There's Soho. Places like that. Definitely not somewhere I'd want my wife to be. Absolutely not."  He slaps his hand on the table.

 

Time to change the topic of conversation once more.

 

"How is work?"  That should keep them speaking English for a while.

 

"Do you know María del Pilar?" V.C.R. man asks his colleague.

 

"Of course. She's pregnant. Everyone knows about her."

 

I look enquiringly at both of them. There must be some other part to this story about María del Pilar.

 

"She's not married!" They both splutter at the same time. They gesticulate with their hands as if wiping the floor with María del Pilar.

 

"You disapprove?" 

 

"Absolutely!" V.C.R. man has no doubts at all about his disapproval. "She's not married!"  He loosens his tie. 

 

"Then," says I, "do you disapprove of the man who got her pregnant?"

 

"What?!  Why would we disapprove of him? "



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tillymint666 said:
Sunday, September 22, 2013 @ 12:34 PM

I think that attitudes to women in general throughout the E.U. (and in fact the world) is still poor!!! It will always be a 'MAN'S WORLD' - let's face it - the majority of people in power are men - and things will always be weighted against women as long as they are the ones who have the babies!!!! It's all about POWER - those in power often abuse it and use it for their own aims. It's a fact of life. However, there is a growing number of men who treat women in a more respectable way and do value them - but most still have outdated views on women and can often be very condescending. I honestly don't think this will EVER change!!!


Bill said:
Sunday, September 22, 2013 @ 2:02 PM

Oh Tillymint666 your outburst is so outdated that it actually made me laugh.
The society that I live in is made up of both sexes treating each other with respect and dignity.



tillymint666 said:
Sunday, September 22, 2013 @ 2:19 PM

Lucky you Bill - but the world is a BIG place - and maybe you are referring to the part of the world you life in?? Maybe your experiences have all been good and positive - which is wonderful for you and those around you. What I was describing is countries where woman are not treated with respect and dignity - in fact - many are actually grabbed off the streets and kidnapped and forced into marriages. This happens not only in Asian countries - but in European countries too. Also in some countries - women have been stoned to death because some man found them attractive and raped them. So the woman was punished for the man's actions. Not the sort of world that you are referring to - but one that definitely exists. I'm glad your world is a nice world - It's maybe a case of not thinking about those places that allows these sorts of thing to continue. We in the U.K. are often very sheltered from these sort of things - but as we all know - the rest of the world (with all these outdated ideals) are moving to the U.K. I hope these people's values are not allowed to change your 'nice place'??


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