Regarding concerns about scams and safety in Thailand
You are not likely to get mugged or robbed in Thailand although it does happen on occassions. I would say that Thailand is much safer than other places in this respect. There are some danger areas in the main tourist regions where ladyboys will accost men walking the streets alone late at night. Ladyboys are the main culprits. They are usually not real gays or transexuals. Just young lads dressing up as a disguise in order to scam or rob. .... But its not the sort of thing that goes on regularly around Thailand, just certain areas in certain main tourist spots.
What I will say is that Thailand has a nickname. It is known as "The land of smiles" or LOS. As a tourist here in a tourist area you will always be aware of the feeling of being watched or looked at. Dont get paranoid because you more than likely are being looked at. If you catch that person who is looking at you they will not look away, they will continue to look and give you a big beaming smile. Maybe even wave or even approach you. This is how it is in tourist areas. Many friendly people always willing and keen to smile at you and be friendly and sociable.
Well I was taught to believe the saying "Never trust a stranger who smiles too much". Why? Well if you are unfamiliar with that person and they show you too much interest with a big smile for no particular reason it means, usually, that they want something from you.
You then ask yourself "What does this good looking confident stranger want from me?". The answer could be many reasons? But if you are a tourist visiting a tourist area in a foriegn land and you are on holiday with money in your pocket I think that narrows down the possible answers quite a lot.
Summary to this little statement is - If you are on holiday in the Land of smiles you will have many lovely friends who will take care of you wonderfully - If you dont mind spending money.
But hey, A big Mac costs money. A beer costs money. A hotel, a taxi ... just about everything in life costs money right? Even a wife and kids and a car cost money and these are probably the most expensive things in life (of which I have none - by choice) .... The best things in life cost money so why not splash out a bit more and buy/rent other nice things on offer?
Thailand - The Land of Smiles - is geared around "taking care" of the tourist. In return they expect to paid
It is Thailands main national income on a country scale and also many many an individual scale. They are professional "take-carers" of tourists. As long as you have money.
It isnt too much money though, usually. So you only live once and if you have a bit of pocket money then why not enjoy yourself and let the smiling Thais spoil you?
They really do spoil you. They are so nice and keen to please and fun. So easy going. They go out of their way to make you enjoy and in return you are more than happy to be nice in return. It works both ways and everyone enjoys.
The problems may arise when you possibly meet one of the minority. Hopefully you wouldnt. A scammer. Somebody who is prepared to con you. To cheat you. Maybe somebody who has themself been scammed and it corrupted them ??? These types can be found antwhere and unfortunately in Thailand too.
But you will only be conned or scammed or ripped-off if you allow it to happen.
If you are not too gullible then you will see it coming and smile politely and refuse and move on ... If you get aggressive then you will recieve aggression in return.
P.S. Its easy for me to say "If you are not too gullible then you will see it coming". I have been here for 15 years and have seen most things but in my early days I got tricked a bit but nothing serious, nothing major at all but when first time in a completely different world of different attitudes then you can be a bit vulnerable to wiser natives. Some of those wiser natives may try to take advantage .... But hey thats life right? Thats human nature. Can happen even on your own doorstep.
Cheers
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This message was last edited by Skajd on 13/12/2012.
This message was last edited by Skajd on 13/12/2012.