Hi Chrysee.
Well done, it looks like you have covered your back very well and i wish you well in all your doing.
Very sorry to hear about your circumstances, it is not a nice thing to go through anywhere, with anything.
Their is a lesson to be learnt here, i bet some who have read these posts on here, and other forums, may have thought "Well i wont ever get into this mess" sadly, yes, it could happen to anyone.
Good luck and i hope for you something good has come out of sharing your problems with total strangers.....who have only good intentions for you with all the answers.