Dear Izzy: Please have answers below in bold green ( same text of your email):
Does anyone know how i get an NIE number for a bed ridden relative? A Notary can go to her house so she can grant POA for you to apply for the NIE number on her behalf.
When i go to the local police office they tell me he has to go in person nothing else is allowed. You can apply through Notary POA.
The medication bills from the pharmacy are over 1k now and nothing can be claimed back without an NIE number.
The relative is 87 and ill for some time and is unable to move or make himself understood. Can she write? I had to get a certificate of life for the UK pensions so is there something similar i can do to get this NIE number? Notary POA for you to apply for her NIE on her behalf.
Finaly do Spanish have similar carers system to the UK or am i best trying to get him back to the UK? Well... I cannot answer this as I do not know the care system in the UK.
You can have some information on Medical system in Spain here: http://www.eyeonspain.com/blogs/costaluz/1083/legal-tip-26--overview-of-the-health-system-in-spain.aspx
Thanks Izzy