It's awful isn't it Chrissie and Gill, life being on hold like this, We are like you really could not afford to lose this kind of money, which is why we did checks and were told it was all covered with a bank guarantee so we could never ever lose our money!!!! I do believe that the lawyers obviously are governed by the court system, however they could make this journey a bit easier for us.. but it's a job for them, not their life, they do not live it every day, I used equity in my home to pay for this I will never ever be able to have that kind of equity again, never ever be able to have the last decade of my life back either, that has been dominated by this nightmare..I can't have a holiday home in the sun any more, or a pension fund or anything to fall back on, but it's just a job for them..
This is a journey we have been on... from A to B.. from starting this court process to actually getting money in our bank account, and the inbetween part of this journey is really important... we need information in a manner that we can understand as we are not lawyers.. we need prompt replies that are sincere and personal rather than generic "we will reply in ......days" etc.. then the standard... "as soon as we hear from the court we will inform you", we need to be treated like people not numbers... as you say there are so many inconsistencies there is no formula no one size fits all that all lawyers and clients are following so how are we supposed to know what is happening..it seems like everyone is making it up as they go along, the lawyers are getting a lot of money for this, and so they should.. there is a lot involved.. however this is our money, this was always our money.. it is money that we have earned ourselves over a long period of time and no builder or bank should ever have taken it from us in the first place without giving us anything in return, we have a right to get it back..i appreciate the help of my lawyer to get this back for us, but yes this does leave a bad taste in my mouth, it's no lottery win, I have just received what is mine in the first place, but have had to give over 20% of it up in fees, so definately no jumping for joy going on in this household...my advice to lawyers is pretend that you care, even if you don't it might make it a little easier for us, don't we deserve that....