Hi Lynne..
glad you found the site - it helps to not feel so alone with this battle.
as per last comment - all details reg lawyer is under builders blog. you have been told pretty much the same story as all of us...it all feels like a total shambles. Mine has also been 5 yrs....anyway - give lawyer a call...and then any contact u make and want to keep a bit private - use the private e mail addresses.
bye for now
babsy