The problem is that people are confusing and mixing differences of opinion with online fights. When I post I always try to think about the person I'm addressing and try to make sure that I could and would be comfortable saying exactly the same in person. If I fail in my attempt to keep that policy its sometimes my English which fails me and on some other occasions a culture difference. We Dutch are quite direct but not easily offended.
I do my best to avoid personal clashes as the only thing I'm interested in is a strong united community. I know around 90 percent of the people here so I don't want to ruin my life by being aggresive against any of them. I mantain very good relations with as good as all of them and like to keep it that way.
I sometimes disagree with good friends of mine in this community about DJ issues, but then we drink a beer and have a good laugh.
Max.