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21 Jan 2009 12:00 AM by suemac Star rating in Jumilla, Murcia. 1001 forum posts Send private message

(Twigit's not the only one who's into alliteration!)

I woke up this morning feeling very sorry for myself.  I had not slept well, partly because I have a bad back at the moment, which is really painful when I move the wrong way, and partly because it was very windy, so the door and the blinds had been rattling loudly all night.  Last night, I had been trying to run a hot bath to ease the stiffness in my back, but after a while the pressure became low so there was no more hot water.  Luckily I had just enough water for my bath but it wasn't as hot as I had hoped.

I was already feeling a bit low, as John has gone off to London for a few days to try and sort out finances for our (hoped for) new flat, so I am home alone.  Like many people, we have money invested in SADM and no bank guarantee, with no idea whether we will get a penny back or when that may happen.  We can't afford to lose that money. We are living on UK pensions, so with the current exchange rate our money isn't going as far as we had hoped.  I had started filing my tax return online, which I have to do as I worked on a self-employed basis in London as well as being employed on a part-time basis.  According to the calculations, in spite of making a "loss" as my outgoings were more than my earnings, and in spite of having a negative tax code for my paid employment, and in spite of not earning much money anyway, it appears that I owe over £500 in tax!

I had been looking at the cost of flights in July and August yesterday evening, as my daughter has announced she plans to get married either the end of July or end of August, and the cost is going to be very high.  That of course is not entirely bad news, as I like Vicky's intended husband and I am very happy for her, but it is still going to cost me a lot of money!  I then looked at the forum, and everybody seemed to be insulting each other again (I remember the days when we were all trying to help each other.....!) so that did nothing to cheer me up.  I took my blood pressure, which I haven't done for a while as it has been OK, and it was far too high - hardly surprising though!  I think that is all the doom and gloom that I can remember, and it's probably more than enough.

Things hadn't improved overnight, as when I tried to run water to make a cup of tea, I discovered that there was now NO water!  I was lucky in so far as I had bought a two litre bottle of water in Dia yesterday, so I had just enough water left to boil for my cuppa.  The neighbour who acts as caretaker wasn't at home when I rang her bell, hoping to ask her if there was a problem in the whole block or just our flat, and I was meeting a friend for coffee so I had to leave it.

Juana Maria was on good form, so we enjoyed the hour or so we spent chatting.  She told me that if the whole building was without water (at that stage of course I didn't know), it would probably have been fixed by the time I got back.  She also mentioned how lucky we are to have running water, gas, electricity etc, which of course we are.  She was going to the shops so walked back with me, and on the way she stopped to buy rollos de San Anton, and gave me one as a present.  It's good to have friends. 

When I got back to the flat and checked, I had water again, including hot water.  The sun is shining, even though it is a bit chilly, and apart from this back problem I am fortunate with my health.  John will be back on Saturday so I only have a couple more days on my own.  I have a wedding to look forward to in the summer.  If my prayers are answered, we will also have our own flat here in Jumilla.  Things could be a lot worse, and for many people they are.

I am hoping that when I look at the other threads again, people will be saying nice things to each other and making helpful comments.  Even sharing news with each other.

I think it is better to be an optimist than......

Sue

 



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21 Jan 2009 1:56 PM by HAWKINGS111 Star rating in Las Filipinas. Spain.... 290 forum posts Send private message

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Hi Sue.

Well thats the true british Bulldog spirit. Well done.

                       Bob.



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21 Jan 2009 2:08 PM by suemac Star rating in Jumilla, Murcia. 1001 forum posts Send private message

Hi Bob

Since writing my previous post, I have read the latest updates on the How Much Longer thread, and it looks as if something positive may be about to happen, and people are willing to work together.  Onwards and upwards!

Sue



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21 Jan 2009 5:01 PM by Chrissie1 Star rating in UK. 384 forum posts Send private message

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Sue

I hope things are getting brighter and brighter for you today and your words are always much appreciated on the threads, you are generally a positive person and I am sure John will be home before you know it.

I wish I  felt that I could join in but I am sorry to say that I dont feel welcome. It seems that as we all trundle through our situations in spain there is little or no comfort on here that helps so at the risk of getting hounded and heckled, Sue stay as happy as you can, keep smiling and you will be alright.

Regards Chrissie



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21 Jan 2009 5:35 PM by martinbrothers Star rating in Worcestershire. 278 forum posts Send private message

Hi Sue, what can anyone say.. there are some darn good folk on this forum willing to share thoughts, feelings, anger and frustration at times (understandable), but we are all in this awful mess together.  Soon be spring, hubby home, a wedding celebration to look forward too and we will be fighting on for the Majority who want to re-build their lives with hard earned money someone has stollen from us. 

Dont forget if your daughter chooses a Maggie Sottero, Amanda Wyatt, Augusta Jones or San Patrick (Spanish).. you may save enough for the flight home!

Sal x



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21 Jan 2009 6:01 PM by briando55 Star rating in Yorkshire. 1982 forum posts Send private message

TYPICAL

ONLY A WOMAN CAN TELL YOU WHAT TO BUY..............TO SAVE MONEY................WOO HOO

some things will never change regardless of San Jose....................lol

 



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21 Jan 2009 7:49 PM by suemac Star rating in Jumilla, Murcia. 1001 forum posts Send private message

Sal and Chrissie

I spent just under 14 euros in the January sales and managed to save myself 18 euros - how good is that?!

Brian

Only women really know how to save money.  Sorry, but that is a FACT!

Sue



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21 Jan 2009 7:59 PM by Chrissie1 Star rating in UK. 384 forum posts Send private message

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You did well Sue thats what sales are for      WOMEN.        Brian now your onto a subject we girls know all about ........ shopping. Now I am wondering what you got for 14 euros instead of 32 euros.

Chrissie



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21 Jan 2009 9:13 PM by julie anne Star rating. 1103 forum posts Send private message

It is not my intention to cause any domestic disputes but I just wondered.

We have all agreed us girls are definitely the fairer sex when it comes to shopping and getting a bargain. Therefore I was wondering ! how it all worked out between the sexes whenwe made that life altering decision to sign the papers for our properties way back then. ( Seems like a lifetime ago now! )

Were we all in agreement with our OH ?  Or was there disagreement ? Did the men barge in with the  "I know best attitude " or did they ere on the side of caution only to be persuaded it was a good investment  and a dream come true by there female OH who had fallen in love with the house and lifestyle .

Perhaps it was the female OH who showed restraint and said "Lets go back home and do some more thinking and research” 

Perhaps it was the male OH who left his balls on the bathed in constant sunshine golf course and his brains at 19th whole . Did he persuade the female OH this is a sure thing  "no risk involved " ?

I just wondered why we all felt so sure and safe enough to go a head in the first place ? With a process of purchasing we would never have risked in the UK. Remember in the UK it would be a £500 - £1000 deposit and nothing else until you got your keys /title deeds and all planning/council documents and building licences ,including the 10 yr building guarentee .I know this as I bought a new build in the UK in 1987 deposit until keys £100 .

Many inspection trips arranged by the agents have now been exposed as pushy and intimidating with agents making it quite clear they expected a sale out of the trip or the purchaser would pay costs and wrath . Did this happen to any or all of us?

Just wondered what we all feel about our initial decision to purchase and the circumstances as we never seem to discuss the initial part of our journey.

Perhaps Sue (is it Sue who is writing the book? my memory is getting worse!) could get a chapter out of what ever we can share.

Best regards JA

 


 



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21 Jan 2009 10:17 PM by twigit Star rating in near yon ousing esta.... 162 forum posts Send private message

Hullo ta yer all,

Good comments on Sue's haliterhasion but a think MM could ave......

See you all on me own channel.

HLFN

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21 Jan 2009 10:45 PM by julie anne Star rating. 1103 forum posts Send private message

Back on your own channel . Twig you have made an agreement !!!!!!!!




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22 Jan 2009 8:00 AM by auntielinda Star rating in San Miguel de Salina.... 646 forum posts Send private message

Hi

I don't often post on this forum, however the absurd comments about "only women can save money at sales" has forced me to respond ,with facts, ladies. Just remember for ever pound or euro that you lot spend /save at the sales, men have already saved by not going to the sales in the first place.

Sales were invented by men to tempt (quite easily it seems) you women into spending money you probally don't have, into buying things you don't really need or want, and also managing to get rid of all the old stock and still make a profit. Seems to me that you ladies are very easily manipulated by pretty shiney things. Intelligent or what.

Now I sit back and absorb the flack, lucky I'm use to it!!!  Ha! Ha! Ha!

The much misunderstood other half, Dave


 



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22 Jan 2009 8:02 AM by auntielinda Star rating in San Miguel de Salina.... 646 forum posts Send private message

JA it is Sue who is writing the book both myself and Bob  "Hawkings" have contributed

Sue as for your water you are very lucky we have had no water for 3 days on 2 occasions ove the last fortnight due to the fact we are on San Miguel water which is classed as toxic by the WHO. The tale is as we live "on top o hill" water is pumped up to a holding tank supplying 143 homes the tank belonged to all residents until last year when ERNA our water supplier took over responsibility, that is our first bit of luck as both pumps have failed within 2 weeks otherwise we would have had to folk out for 2 new pumps, to top it all on the 3rd day the electric went off for 18 hours so couldn't even make a cuppa. Luckily we kept the keys to La Zenia so had a shower and hot drink  at royrelleis our next door neighbour  ha!ha!ha! SJ helped out there although they don't know it

When it was all rectified I had a visitation from the whole community as La Presidente they asked me to send a letter to Iberdrola thanking them for working no stop for 16 hours to reconnect us

That's my tale BUT I have made the right decision and as you say the sun shines most days just watched the sun rise this morning over the sea what a magnificent sight



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22 Jan 2009 9:22 AM by HAWKINGS111 Star rating in Las Filipinas. Spain.... 290 forum posts Send private message

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Hi Dave.

You have hit the nail right on the head regarding women and sales. The most important point you made, was buying something that really was NOT needed for say €15 instead of €40 and saving €25. Wow.

Men infact are probably better than women at the sales, as you have just proved Dave. When you posted, you knew another guy would back you up, thereby taking 50% of the oncoming flack from you, and it did not cost you a cent.

Very clever Dave. Ha. Ha.

Duck Dave, here comes the flack.

                       Bob.



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22 Jan 2009 1:11 PM by briando55 Star rating in Yorkshire. 1982 forum posts Send private message

At last a sensible thread.......................so just to clarify a few more things

Men have a much higher pain threshold as well

And......................we can park cars and read maps.................

So it goes to prove we wouldnt be trying to buy stuff to save money................plain as the nose on my face

(which may be a target for a couple of handbags)



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22 Jan 2009 3:29 PM by auntielinda Star rating in San Miguel de Salina.... 646 forum posts Send private message

If I used a handbag which i don't as I have my own cash machine with me in the form of the Laird  you 3 would be 1st in line for a thrashing no cheeky comments now boys



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22 Jan 2009 3:42 PM by HAWKINGS111 Star rating in Las Filipinas. Spain.... 290 forum posts Send private message

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Brian.

Parking cars [ as well as driving them] is spot on again.

Linda.

Bring on the whip if you must. Please......



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22 Jan 2009 3:42 PM by auntielinda Star rating in San Miguel de Salina.... 646 forum posts Send private message

Believe me, Her thrashings are VERY nice!

Dave


 



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22 Jan 2009 3:52 PM by HAWKINGS111 Star rating in Las Filipinas. Spain.... 290 forum posts Send private message

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Linda.

Please cancel the whip.

From the look of Daves last post, it is probably all frayed and worn out by now.

Of course you could always buy a new one Linda.



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22 Jan 2009 5:21 PM by alantracey Star rating. 156 forum posts Send private message

Are you men suggesting that you never buy things you don't need - ?

 

Has anyone looked in the shed / garage / workshop?  Lots of shiny 'stuff' there




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